Several years ago my grandmother scolded me like only grandmas can do. After I broke up with my ex-partner. Her answer was grandma-brilliant that I still regularly (consciously) use to this day. I use it not only for myself but also for my clients.
See what you have, don't look at what you don't have.
Dear darling, stop looking at the future, don't look at the things you don't have now. We humans all have four things in our top wish list!
You darling have the most important thing you could wish for in possession. You are healthy. You have a roof over your head, and you have a small loaf of bread to eat. What else do you need?...
You have all 4 of them, which is more than the average human has.
What do you mean, all 4? ...
Self love is the powerful form that exists dear, it is stronger than any other form of love.
Enjoy a cup of coffee intensely ... just as you would if you were to buy a luxury item (whether or not you can afford it). Enjoy everything you have. Give yourself the love you deserve, give yourself the attention you deserve because that really makes you happy and it's free too!
You don't have to do anything for it, it's there. It is always there, it never goes away. Get up with a smile and go to bed with a smile whether you are single like me or have a family or partner it does not matter.
Look at what you have and don't look at what you don't have ...... Who knows, that at the right time at the moment, unexpectedly will come your way.
My grandmother turned 95, but I feel she should have turned 150! And I still miss you every day. Her light and unique (stubborn) way of life inspired many people. Thank you dear grandmother I use this grandma brilliant vision every day !.